You decided to get them together to discuss what is going on.

Explore how you would deal with the each of the following events

1. Chris isn't in the office at the arranged meeting time. People think he's at lunch, but he's been gone a long time
   
   
2. Chris and Trudy agree to the meeting, but after a few minutes start to raise their voices and accuse each other of being unreasonable
   
   
3. Chris and Trudy refuse to sit down with each other, saying their differences are too great